‘My wife discovered she could squirt 13 years into our marriage, during oral sex at a swingers club. Jason finds it sexy because: ‘she’s vulnerable and doing this in front of me because she knows I love it.’ Mark, an investor in his 40s She became so expert that with my finger, and an electric toothbrush on her clit, she could gush any time.’ It turns out she was fully capable once she learnt to let go. ‘I loved it, and my wife picked up on my enthusiasm, so we tried it later. He explains: ‘We were into swinging with this couple, and the guy said, “watch this!” then fingered his wife until she gushed all over the floor. Jason had been with his wife ten years when they set out to make her squirt. I find it a huge turn-on and it’s revolutionised our sex life.’
However, having overcome the impulse to hold it in, ‘it’s now almost as important to her as a clitoral climax. Every time I touched her, more would come.’īen says the biggest stumbling block was psychological, explaining: ‘My wife was on the brink then panicked, thinking she was about to pee.’ The sheets were drenched and she was quivering.
A couple showed us how to do it, and when we tried the technique at home, my wife squirted so powerfully she could hardly stop. It was sexy, and I was all wet and horny.’ Ben, in his 50sīen credits squirting with saving his marriage: ‘We were having a few problems, so we went to a class on female ejaculation. She masturbated while I licked her, then told me to be prepared. She asked if I had any kinks and I said I’d love to see her squirt. ‘It was during a one night stand with an older woman. Since splitting with his ex, Jack’s had a better experience with squirting. It’s sexy to get squirted because it’s visual and you can’t fake that.’ ‘We were together another year and it didn’t happen again, which is sad. I think she hoped I didn’t know or hadn’t understood what happened. ‘I thought it was hot, and it could’ve been an exciting turning point in our relationship, but she wouldn’t talk about it. ‘She was embarrassed and went to the bathroom – that’s when I realised why she’d always held back. She became more comfortable, but was always insecure about the mattress and sheets – she’d want to go back to hers and have a towel handy.’ ‘I told her it was natural and a compliment of sorts, but I got the impression that wasn’t the typical response she’d had from guys in the past. ‘When it happened with the first woman, she was self-conscious,’ says Myles.
‘I’ve been with two women who pushed for shower sex the first time we slept together, and they both turned out to be squirters, so I assume it was to hide it.’Įach woman went on to ejaculate in bed the second time she and Myles slept together – with differing degrees of awkwardness. ‘In conversations among men, making a woman squirt is a point of pride – it means you got the woman to the ultimate climax. She giggled like Barbara Windsor and blamed my ability to reach certain areas.’ Myles, a consultant in his 30s When it happened, I was soaked – it was like her waters broke. He says: ‘I’d been to see it, and she text me shortly after, leaving me under no illusion that the car sale was top priority. The second time it happened for Paul was with a woman whose car was for sale. It was like pressing the button of a water fountain.’ Once I worked what it was, I felt rather good about myself. I was weirded out, but carried on as it didn’t seem to faze her. ‘Initially I thought she’d pissed all over the carpet. ‘A certain angle made it happen – she had to be on top, or laid flat in front of me, with me kneeling in front so she was at the height of my waist. Paul says Louise squirted after 10 to 15 minutes of penetration. She popped a note through the door, saying, “I’m Louise and I like Prosecco” so I bought two bottles and went round there.’
Paul says a woman ejaculating makes him feel like a Greek god.ĭescribing the first time it happened, Paul tells us: ‘It was with the next door neighbour of a friend I was house-sitting for. Simon was neither bothered nor excited by the squirting as he’d ‘never been into that from a porn perspective.’ Paul, an operations manager, 41 Normally she’d push me away, saying “I can’t take it!”‘ Simon believes it happened because: ‘I kept licking as she was orgasming. At first I was worried she’d weed, but it tasted like her, so I imagine it was lady-ejaculate.’ Simon remembers a sixty-nine with his girlfriend at university when ‘a soft but insistent dribble trickled into my mouth as she came. We spoke to a range of men who say they’ve made women squirt to find out more. But Toby, who’s had a woman squirt it in his face, disagrees, explaining: ‘it tasted like her pussy.’